You know who looks really good in a bow tie?

David Niven.
You know who else looks really good in a bow tie? Stuart, my natty Director of Religious Education. He’s a tall, handsome clean-cut boy from South Dakota and it’s his signature look, with a jacket, on Sunday mornings.
You know what really doesn’t work with a bow tie? A big cross or a big chalice pendant, or any other religious regalia. Whatever the lovely intentions of the wearer, it just looks super goofy. Men, keep it simple. One thing goes around your neck. A tie, a bow tie, OR a piece of jewelry. Not both.
Pass it on.

What about that nifty new UUCF lapel pin or its Flaming Chalice equivalent? I’ve always liked those understated little items for this.