Defining Business Casual

i jes’ found this on-line by Rachel Zupek. In an article on defining business casual, she sez,

Does this mean business casual is dead? Not really, but you could argue the appropriate application of business casual is, says Elizabeth Freedman, author of “Work 101: Learning the Ropes of the Workplace without Hanging Yourself” (Random House).

“Companies don’t spend enough time really conveying why dress is important in the workplace beyond a 20-minute session for employees at a company orientation,” Freedman says. “Over time, employees figure out what they can ‘get away with’ and their wardrobes reflect that.” Freedman suggests companies educate employees on an ongoing basis about what is appropriate and what isn’t. Choosing the right dress for business is similar to choosing one of the best cloud fax services. You need to pick matters related to business carefully.

Sandy Dumont, corporate image consultant, agrees that the concept of business casual has gotten out of hand.

“The moment you permit casual attire, it goes from bad to worse,” she says. “Employees are like spoiled children who have been told they can eat anything they want, and now they don’t want to eat their vegetables, only junk food.”

To avoid becoming a business casualty, follow these workplace do’s and don’ts.

Do keep a blazer or jacket in your office. Always be prepared for an impromptu meeting with an important client or customer. “Should an unplanned opportunity arise to meet with a client who might observe a more conservative dress code, employees can simply don their blazer, add a tie if appropriate and dress up quickly,” Crane says.

Don’t have only one wardrobe. “To save a buck, some of us wind up wearing the same things to work that we would wear on any given weekend. Business casual isn’t casual dress,” Freedman says. “It’s an upscale professional look – not to be confused with what you might wear out one night with your friends.”

Do ditch the khakis. They look sloppy, rumpled and slept-in within minutes. Instead wear tan or beige trousers in cotton twill in the summer or a wool gabardine in the winter, Dumont says.

Don’t show too much skin. Anything that reveals too much skin is inappropriate. Keep skimpy tops that reveal bare midriffs, too-tight knit shirts that reveal bulging pecs and low-rise slacks that afford others the opportunity to potentially see more than they should, out of the office, Crane says.

Do invest in a suit. Men and women should invest in two basic suits and three coordinating shirts or blouses, advises John Heins, senior vice president and chief human resources officer for Florida-based staffing firm, Spherion Corporation. “They are timeless, neutral and almost always appropriate,” he says. “All pieces work together to produce a wardrobe that is greater than the sum of its parts.” And you can always ditch the suit coat for a dressed down, yet professional look.

Don’t wear flip-flops. There isn’t anything remotely business-like or professional about flip-flops, so save them for the surf, Freedman says. “Even if they cost you $100 and are adorned with jewels from Tiffany, don’t do it.”

Do be clean and well-groomed. The way you care for yourself indicates to employers the level of care you put into your work, says Donna Flagg, workplace expert. “If you look sloppy, higher-ups in the organization will think your work is sloppy,” Flagg says.

Don’t confuse ‘casual’ with ‘sloppy.’ At minimum, clothes should be ironed and unstained. “Business casual attire should be crisply pressed and wrinkle-free,” Crane says.

Do follow the leader. If your office allows business casual, but your boss never wears open-toe shoes, you might consider keeping your own hidden, says Rachel Weingarten, author of “Career and Corporate Cool.” “If you do go for sandals, maybe limit the pedicure to a neutral shade instead of a shocking red or quirky blue.”

Don’t try to “get away” with things. You’ll look less like a professional and more like a teenager, Weingarten says. “The point isn’t to show what you can wear; it’s to show what you can do.”

The bottom line?

“If you want to play on the team, wear the team uniform,” Freedman says. “Look around your office, see how successful people dress and imitate. I’ll bet you won’t find senior-level folks at work dressed shabbily – or in flip-flops.”

RIGHT ON, Rachel and Elizabeth! We ARE spoiled children who DO try too often to “get away with” sloppy looks! We SHOULD embrace twill and gabardine! And kisses to you for slamming on the flip-floppage! PeaceBang Halo of Praise to you!

The Saints In White

I just want to say before I go off for a week-long colloquy in evil and suffering, how nice it was to attend church today and to have the church saints all in white.

Can someone educate me on this tradition? Is it just an African-American church thing?

This was a United Methodist Church, predominantly Black congregation (not AME).

What To Wear To A Full-Immersion Baptism

I met this lovely woman, the Reverend Angela Dionne Madden, at the Festival of Homiletics. What you can’t really see in the photo is how much she looks like a young Liz Taylor:

Rev. Angela

After we talked about shoes and other fun items (like how cute is that bag?), Angela asked me if I had any thoughts about what she might wear for a full-immersion baptism that she would be doing today.

Of course, it being PENTECOST (Holy Ghost power! Holy Ghost power!), we both thought she should wear a flaming red dress, but I’m not sure that was among her options. So I recommended that she wear a cotton top and skirt — heavy enough material that she could pull it away from her body after coming out of the water and it wouldn’t cling too much, wouldn’t be sheer, and could breathe and dry quickly. She said she’d be wearing waders, which is a good idea for anyone who’s taking a new Christian into the Jordan and doesn’t want to wind up getting sucked into the mud. Nothing ruins a beautiful baptism so quickly as a pastor flailing their arms for help and sinking quickly from view. Although…. what a way to go, huh?

Speaking of which, I was just chatting with our town funeral director — who has become very dear over the years — who told me about a woman who died on the massage table. “That’s how I want to go!” I said. Just an aside, darlings, be good to your funeral directors. If you’re a small-town pastor, you can learn where all the bodies are buried from your local FD, and I mean that literally as well as metaphorically.

So ANYhoo, we talked about what Angela might wear — including various alb options — and what I really loved the best was when her friend Julia and I got to practice dipping her back, because we wanted to show her that she really was going to get quite wet. The thing is, baptizing preachers, make sure to really bend at the knee as you dip your new Christian backward or you’ll strain your back. As a Unitarian who sprinkles babies and children with just a teaspoon or so of water as they are blessed, named and welcomed into our covenant, I have no real-life experience with that sort of thing, but it was really tender working it out with Pastor Angela and being a little part of the blessing she would help God bestow today upon some folks in Pratt, Kansas.

So Angela, I’m thinking of you and hoping that you had a beautiful baptism.

And all the rest of you, if you have a hankering to run around praising the Lord and speaking in tongues, well today is your day. You go for it, and let the rest of us more cautious, less-Pentecostal types know how it went.

Summer Thighs

Well, chickens, Kate brought it up, so now we can talk about it!

For avoidance of heat-stick-thighs under a skirt with no hose, I like something loverly I just discovered at a funny little neighborhood beauty supply: thigh-length leggings. Like hose chopped off above the knee, and finished with nice stretch lace. Voila! I will not stick to myself under my cute little sundresses this summer when my church has its booth at the outdoor arts fair!!

You can, of course, make your own – by chopping off a pair of hose above the knee. Just know that at some point, you WILL get runs. Not that anyone but you will see them!

Kate, you are so right. PeaceBang thinks it’s just ridiculous that Spanx charges something like $25 for the same darn thing, and she knows from firsthand experience that even Spanx run.

And the Barely There brand doesn’t feel like it’s barely there at all. It feels like you’ve been stuffed into sausage casing.

Cotton bike shorts also work, darlings. And Kate, my sweet, what was the brand of your little lace-finished thingies?

PeaceBang would like to remind you all that ladies don’t sweat… we glisten.

Sephora in Times Square



Originally uploaded by Peacebang.

On my recent quick little jaunt to NYC, I had to stop by the Mecca of cosmetics, Sephora.

For all of you who wondered what Sephora is, here it is!

I met a fabulous gal named Alison who helped me with skin care products.

SisterBang bought some eye cream, and MotherBang sat patiently and waited for us. She says that if it doesn’t have Retinol in it, it’s a waste of money. She swears by Sally Hansen Skin Brightener.

Happy Birthday, MotherBang! You don’t look it!