Beauty Tips for Ministers

Joys and Concerns, Blog Version

“Hi, my name is PeaceBang and I would like to share with the congregation the concern that I got these really cute shoes from Payless for $15 last year, and I thought they’d be comfortable because they’re wedges, but my feet are already killing me and I’m going to wind up limping home at 1:30 pm. And now I’m going to have to give these shoes to Kaji because they’re really, really cute and someone needs to appreciate them.

Thanks. It means a lot for me to be able to share that with the Beloved Community.

Also, I have a joy. I was on NPR yesterday . Thanks for caring.”

PeaceBang on NPR’s “Weekend America!”

Well darlings, PeaceBang has made another media appearance — this time with the lovely and fun Sean Cole, who showed up for our interview in VERY snazzy spectacles and a snappy outfit. Kids these days, I’ll tell ya.

Here’s the link to two outtakes from the interview. The longer segment (about ten minutes), can be found here, by fast forwarding through Hour One of the Sept. 29 broadcast until you get to minute 44:00.

Over and out,
The “Clergy Fashionista”

PeaceBang On Busted Halo NOW!

If you’re up and you have Sirius Radio, I’ll be on Channel 159 talking with Father Dave Dwyer of “The Busted Halo Show” in about 15 minutes.

Love, PB

Busy Bee

Hello dear readers,

Be back soon!

Meanwhile, Boston-area PeaceBangers, don’t forget to watch me on WBZ (CBS) this coming Sunday morning on the “Sunday Mornings With Liz Walker Show.”

But go to church first!

xoxo PB

TA DA…The NIGHTLINE Clip

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d4Ek8JCRAxA

Welcome, NIGHTLINE Visitors!

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Originally uploaded by Peacebang.

Welcome to PeaceBang’s Beauty Tips For Ministers!

As you can see, this is not a swanky blog with lots of hip graphics and brilliant organizational concept. This blog was started about a year ago by a minister for other ministers, to address the problem of our so often failing to communicate our inner vibrancy through our exterior appearance. Or as I put it, “the de-frumpification of the American clergy.”

I, your humble correspondent, am a lady of the cloth, not of the internet. I wouldn’t know an HTML code if it walked up and bit me on the nose. It is for this reason that I am particularly thrilled that a generous reader of this blog is going to re-design it soon so that it will be a lot more user-friendly and organized. Look for our freshly snazzed-up appearance somewhere around Easter, just when ministers are most in need of some snazz in our lives, wouldn’t you say?

Beauty Tips for Ministers is a on-line community of clergy– and includes some non-clergy readers who either just want either a good laugh or seek about how to dress professionally in a “casual Friday” world. We have readers from six different countries that I know of, and I conduct an enthusiastic private consultation with any minister who sends me an e-mail asking for advice. (Contrary to what was suggested on “Nightline,” no one in my congregation asks me for fashion advice!! In the interest of full disclosure, however, I should reveal that we do occasionally discuss shoes at meetings and I did once receive a fabulous red lipstick as a Christmas gift from a parishioner.)

I am not paid by anyone for anything that I write, so if you were wondering if CoverGirl is slipping me a check for every time that I sing the praises of their Outlast All-Day Lipcolor in Blush Pearl, the answer is “No, but if anyone from CoverGirl is listening, wouldn’t I be totally cute in a commercial?”

Scroll away, friends new and old. In these postings you will find heated arguments about shoes (no flip-flops! EVER!), rapturous recounting of the virtues of the Simple White Blouse, stern admonitions to gentlemen to Use Thy Norelco Nose Hair Trimmer, explanations of exfoliation, discussions on what to wear for a day that includes a funeral, a legislative session, a home visit, and a pizza party with the youth group, and general encouragement to all clergy to shine like the illuminating presence they were called to be– however charismatic or gentle, prayerful or prophetic, old, young, gay, straight, feminine or masculine, fat, thin, tall, short, bald or lushly-maned they happen to be.

As Pierre Teilhard de Chardin said, “We are not human beings having a spiritual experience, we are spiritual beings having a human experience.” No matter how gloriously spiritual any of us may be, we meet people not through the radiance of our souls first, but through a simple human encounter in bodily form. And frankly, if we think that religious community is the greatest place to be in order to get the deepest, most transformational experience of life, we should project that through the part of us that actually gets out of bed in the morning.

That is the gospel according to PeaceBang.

Simply put, I am the self-appointed Stage Mother to all ministers, and I want all my babies to be stars.

If you’re interested in reading my sermons as the Reverend Victoria Weinstein, stop by our church website at www.firstparishnorwell.org. My writing as PeaceBang and my parish ministry with First Parish Unitarian Church in Norwell are distinct and separate from each other, but my congregation and I want to take this rare opportunity to invite you to share our ministry on Boston’s South Shore.

If you’re interested in the exciting, free faith tradition known as Unitarian Universalism, visit our Association’s web site at www.uua.org.

If you’re a publisher with a book deal, why yes, I’m definitely interested.

Thanks for stopping by. Enjoy Beauty Tips For Ministers, and may God bless your life with beauty, joy, health and peace.