You know why this TOTALLY works for this fabulous, vibrant babe of a lay minister?
Because she has the vavoom, the charisma, the huge hair and the huge smile to balance all that fabric. As an African-American woman, she has an ethnic connection to this look. She and that jacket BELONG together. Wouldn’t you just want to come up to her and plop yourself down next to her and confide every deep, dark secret of your heart to her? So would I. The thing is, she works for Sacred Places, whose mission is to “promote the stewardship and active community use of America’s older religious properties,” so she’s not that kind of minister. Still, though, that jacket inspires confidence!
(www.sacredplaces.org)
Too many female clerics don the flowy, unstructured jacket and they just don’t have the Endora Majesty (a term I just coined, and feel free to use it!) to move elegantly and commandingly through the world in such garments. On them, it just looks like they’re too heavy to wear an actual structured outfit, and that they lack the confidence or know-how to dress professionally.
Could this be you? Have you been stuck in the Mother Earth Flowy Look for too long, relying on huge cotton garments to say to the world, “I am a Deeply Spiritual Woman?” If so, PeaceBang has hard news for you, so let’s hold hands and hear it: Big, loose clothes do not communicate “spiritual” so much as they communicate “big, loose clothes.” Try on a jacket and a pair of trousers, and see how it changes your outlook and challenges your assumptions about how to project the appropriate image.
Let me know how it goes!!