Hi dears!
Many women who wear eyeliner draw it on and leave it there, and it looks just like what it is: a line drawn on the upper or lower eyelid. The point of eyeliner is to enhance your eyes and make them more visible, not to frame them in a hard outline. Please, please take the time to apply eyeliner so that it follows the shape of your eyes, and blend, for the love of all that is holy, BLEND!
Black eyeliner is dramatic, but it is also quite harsh. Miss Sarah Jessica Parker is the Patron Saint of Harsh Black Eyeliner. The Lord only knows why, but SJP has been devoted to this eye-tinyfying make-up technique forever, and even though legions of fans pray daily for her conversion, she has yet to be delivered from her spiritual bondage to harsh black eyeliner. LORD, HEAR OUR PRAYER:
Navy or dark purple/aubergine eyeliners are much better bets for most women (especially those of us over 35), and of course brown is another fine option (I generally avoid it, as it doesn’t add any oomph. My eyes are brown. I don’t like matchy-matchy — I like a color that brings out the violet specks in my own brown eyes).
And don’t forget grey and greige! (grey/beige)!! Grey eyeshadow and liner are work wonderfully well for many different skin and eye colors — but finding the right shade of grey (not Fifty Shades, though) can be a challenge. I am always on the look-out for good grey/greige products that are pigmented enough to show up on my skin, and that don’t have blue undertones, a common problem with grey cosmetics.
Voila! May I recommend to you Stila eyeshadow in Grace, gorgeous greige (I didn’t make up that word, you know),
and Urban Decay 24/7 Glide-On eyeliner pencil in Desperation,
Both are cruelty-free brands, PeaceBang tested and approved! The eyeshadow shows up beautifully over foundation or primer (it goes on as a very low-key neutral on my pink/white skin without primer), and the eye pencil is very smudgeable and very pigmented (yay!). I use it well-blended on my lower lid and on my upper lid, smudged very close to the lash line. If I want a bit more drama I will add a cat’s eye flick of black or navy liquid liner to the ends of my eyes for better definition and staying power.
Enjoy!